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Tuesday Oct 1, 2019
Why They Fight: Belles of the Brawl VII
With 32 different women stepping in the ring for the first time on October 9th you can imagine there must be a lot of nerves and emotions swirling around. Excitement, fear, anticipation, hope, dread, the list goes on. They all have someone they're fighting for, they all have individual things driving them. Their lives have all been touched by cancer in some way. As fight night is approaching get an inside look as to what motivates these brave men and women who are stepping in the ring to literally knock out cancer. I draw my inspiration from my mom, and from every other person that is currently or has battled cancer. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2011, and thankfully, has been in remission for over 7 years. I fight to celebrate her and honor her battle and for my family and all of the families that have been affected by this disease. -Annie CorbetBeing diagnosed with breast cancer literally days before my 2010 wedding, made my wedding vows - in sickness and in health -- all that more real. I was fortunate that it was caught early. Over the past 9 years, I've helped so many acquaintances, friends, and friends of friends through their respective breast cancer journeys. I fight for myself - in celebration of being cancer free - and in support of others. -Allison PicottI'm fighting so that hopefully in the future others won't have to. I'm fighting for the single parents, the siblings, the grandparents, the friends, the partners, and the kids who aren't given the option of whether to fight. I'm fighting for my Dad, a cancer survivor who's been battling on and off for nearly 20 years. -Maura McGrathI have several close family members who have fought cancer, including my mother in law and brother in law, and multiple grandparents. I can only imagine the strength it took to fight their battles, especially my brother in law who was diagnosed in middle school...I mean come on universe, being a teenager is hard enough! Because both my husband and I have had family members with cancer, I'm also fighting for our futures and our future kids, because you never know when you'll be on the other end of that life-changing news. For all those out there who have battled this ugly disease--you are the true fighters and I am so inspired by your determination and strength. I'm fighting for Nana Ronnie, Kim, John, Gitch & the Pritchett fam, WR, and last but not least, for Jim, who I continue to see in the gym almost every day putting in the work, and whose big heart and compassion for others inspires everyone at EBF. -Jocelyn KeiderMy grandmother passed away from skin cancer when I was very young. She was a wonderful woman who I did not get a chance to know very well aside from distant memories and stories from my mother. My aunt is a breast cancer survivor. My cousin is currently battling multiple myeloma. These are just a few examples. -Rachel GianatasioIt is kind of incredible how one moment can change your life. Just a few weeks before the Belles signups, Gail was diagnosed with a second type of breast cancer and had to seek emergency treatment. Her biggest concern that she voiced while she was getting treatment? Not if the treatment was working, but how in the world she would be able to finish my three year old nephew’s “ring bearer” suit for my brother’s wedding. My aunt Gail won’t get better, but she doesn’t let that stop her. She has outlived EVERY predicted lifespan that any doctor has given her. I think it is because she maintains her belief that even with her diagnosis, she deserves a good life and so she never stops fighting.I’ve decided to throw my hat into the ring for Belles for Gail, and all the people in my life who continue to fight in a much more important round. -Caddy YatesI’m fighting for my dad. My father was recently diagnosed with a cancerous tumor and will be having surgery soon to get it removed. If I have learned anything in this short time that he has been diagnosed, it is that this fight is bigger than all of us, and together, we will win. I will not only be fighting for my father, but for my best friend, Nicole Marshall. Nicole was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer at a very young age, all while working and caring for two young boys. Nicole fought with grace and ultimately won, something not everyone can say. With these two at the forefront of my motivation, they never gave up, and neither will I. This fight is personal for me, as it is for so many families. Help me knock out cancer with any and all donations you are able to give, and I promise to live up to my end of the bargain on October 9th. -Melissa WaldronFor those that fought and won... TRACY... you are a warrior nothing can stop youFor those that fought but lost... my sweet JASON... this world is darker without your light For those that didn’t get an opportunity to fight... MOM... Life took you away from us too young...You will always be our unsung heroI fight for all of you! -Jen SzegdaCancer is everywhere. Over the years many friends, family members, and classmates have bravely fought this disease. While many of them were lucky enough to beat it, others, unfortunately, were not. I'm fighting in Belles of the Brawl to raise money, awareness, and support for all of those who fight without a choice. I chose to fight because I understand that the pain of a punch to the jaw or gut is nothing when compared to the pain of chemo, surgery, or losing a loved one to cancer. -Beatriz Galada-MariaI was in the emergency room when the doctor came in and told my mom that they found a mass on her ovary. I remember shaking if off thinking there was no way she had cancer. A few weeks later, my initial denial became a reality - she had ovarian cancer. As troubling as this news was for all of us, I knew SHE would fight back - WE would fight this diagnosis together. As I sit here writing about why I signed up to do this, it's because she won her battle and now I want to help others do the same!Cancer is unfair. It's invasive, painful and unbiased. It doesn't care how old you are, your gender or the positive impact you have on the world. My aunt Joan, a beloved teacher who kids adore, fought through her breast cancer diagnosis. My brother-in-law Ryan, an army vet, continually braves through surgeries as cancer reappears every few years. My friends and their families, who have battled through remission and loss, continue to pick up the pieces and forge ahead.So here I go. I'm stepping into the ring to #KOCancer because I get to choose this battle unlike those who are diagnosed. My mom credits Dana Farber with saving her life so all the funds that you donate will go directly to that organization. With your help, we can save more lives and knock-out cancer! -Kristin MenconiBecause cancer is not selective. Sadly because of this fact, I have a few people who are motivating me to knockout cancer. I’m fighting for both my grandmothers and my grandfather who all fought and sadly lost their fight with cancer. But the main reason I’m doing this is for my best friend Gabby (if you’re reading this - hi Gabbs!). Through countless doctor’s appointments and surgery, she always has a smile on her face. This girl is a fighter in her everyday life and I’m honored to be doing this for her.I want to do everything I can to knockout this vicious disease. This is my chance to fight for those who didn’t choose this fight, for those important people in my life, and for those who are no longer with us. The least I can do is get punched in the face for a good cause (sorry mom)! -Brittany SoucarI was five when I learned that cancer could take people who you love away. I remember the day my father sat me down and explained that my Grandmother had passed away... that she was "gone". I asked him if he was sure? "Did they check under her bed, and in the closets? Maybe she was hiding?" I'm sure the questions drove him crazy. That was when I learned that your body didn't actually go to Heaven... also the day I understood souls.32 years later and I watched my Mom and my Aunt skip right over a picture of me wearing one of my grandmother's wigs, after all of this time that picture and the memory of the loss, still brings tears to their eyes. In 1983 I was naive to what the adults had gone through; protected by the innocence of a child.Now... 2019...the list of people I know who have battled with this terrible disease seems endless. Some battles have been won, others were not so lucky. I do know, watching someone take their last breaths after fighting so hard, is one of the most difficult things I have experienced.The courageous fights I have witnessed against cancer, whether they were won or lost... the unknown people deal with, the families involved, the treatments, the financial and emotional toll it takes, the side effects, the hope... These people have helped show me the strength people are capable of... I am truly grateful. I choose to fight, because I can... I choose to fight, in hopes that fewer people will ever NEED to fight. The people who will need to fight, that their battles become easier, that diagnosis and treatments continue to get better with medical research. With the ultimate goal...The need for any battles comes to an end, that cancer is truly "knocked out". -Melissa SymesMy “real” second chance came 15 years ago when I found out I was cancer-free after a yearlong battle with thyroid cancer. I fully recognize and appreciate the brilliant and dedicated scientists and doctors, the numerous fundraising events especially H4H, that make treatment, recovery, and hope possible. I’m hoping the small part that I’m playing to battle this terrible disease will in some way help create second chances for others who are fighting a much tougher fight than the one Melissa and I are training for. -Nicole MarshallI guess I’ve always been a fighter, it’s a part of who I am. Growing up, I was bullied by a group of mean girls in middle school. Everyday I went to school despite knowing how hard it would be. Later on I found myself fighting for underdogs and those that couldn’t fight for themselves. When I was 14 years old, my dear Aunt Phil succumbed to her fight with liver cancer and I was devastated. I didn’t really understand cancer and why it would take a perfectly wonderful human being and put them through hell to the point that they were no longer my recognizable aunt. I couldn’t fathom how someone so vibrant could be lost from this world in that way. Since that time, I watched my grandfather battle leukemia, my Auntie Moe (Agnes) battle ovarian cancer, my Uncle Glenn fight multiple myeloma, and a high school friend battle stomach cancer. A little over a year ago, my Aunt Pat died after a two year battle to lung cancer. The list goes on—and all of them lost. -Lisa DiPaoloEight years ago my mom was diagnosed with Lung Cancer. It was the most devastating news I’ve ever received. I know many people have received similar news about a loved one (or even about themselves!) and perhaps were not as lucky as my family - my heart breaks for those that have lost the battle as I can’t imagine my life without one of the strongest, kindest, generous and selfless people I know. My mom was fortunate enough to beat the odds but it didn’t come easy. On October 9th, one week before my 40th birthday, I will step into the boxing ring and fight with all I have to come out victorious. -Rachel PoorI started boxing last Christmas, around the time my father’s mental and physical health began to seriously decline. I decided to try my hand—to relieve the stress, and keep myself busy. My father was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia about 4 years ago. And it’s entirely possible—likely, even—that during the course of my H4H training, he’ll succumb to the disease. So I’m fighting for him, and for myself as I cope with his loss.That said, we’re also not strangers to cancer in my family; we’ve seen firsthand what it can do. Just as significantly, my friend Sam runs an amazing nonprofit, the Samfund (www.thesamfund.org), which supports young adults struggling financially because of cancer. I’m excited to help KO Cancer, with 100% of my straight donations benefitting the Samfund. I’m excited to get in the best shape of my life and learn how to pose for fighter-y photos. And I’m excited to do this for my father—even though I’m pretty sure he would just reprimand me for using poor judgment. Wouldn’t be the first time. -Jenna SavageI am fighting in memory of friends and family that have lost their battle with cancer; for those who are currently fighting their own battle; and in honor of those who have endured this disease and survived. -Tricia GillI take on this challenging fight…..To thank my mother for teaching me what courage, strength, and resilience look like, and to acknowledge all the sacrifices she has made to make our lives better. To show my mother how inspiring she is to me. I am constantly striving every day to follow her lead and to become a more courageous wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, and person. To acknowledge how tired of fighting I know my mother must be, even if she will never admit it. I fight for her to be cancer free, so she can enjoy all her days on this earth with her family and friends without the constant fear of what is next.For all our loved ones who are currently fighting to beat this unforgiving disease—and for those who have fought but who are no longer with us. For the hope that one day we won’t have to fight cancer anymore. -Erinn CahillI’m fighting to find a cure, bring awareness and show my support for survivors and all those touched by cancer. Most recently, my colleague and friend of 18 years, Cindy, lost her fourteen-month battle with brain cancer. She would do anything for anyone, but also probably tell me I’m crazy for signing up for this event. I lost my Pepere, my one of a kind Uncle Billy. I’ve seen close friends and acquaintances lose loved ones. I’ve also seen so many people give a big kick in the butt to the disease and fight harder than anything. They have WON and are still WINNING. I want there to be a time someday soon where EVERYONE WINS and we #KOCancer. -Karen BoudreauIn honor of my father, Roger, as well as the Curtis family, all of my direct donations will benefit the incredible programs of TEAM CORK. If you asked Chris Curtis or my Dad, they'd both tell you the most important things in life are faith, family, and friends. They both have battled cancer with the love and support of family and friends, but not every cancer patient is blessed with the same network of support. There is nothing more heartbreaking than seeing a cancer patient alone at an appointment, scan, or chemotherapy infusion. Team Cork Inc. was founded with the mission to not only raise cancer awareness, but also to raise funds for cancer patient welfare programs, and to provide a support network for those battling cancer alone. -Erin O’NeilI fight in the memory of family and friends that I've lost who have played a major role in making me who I am today.I fight alongside my brother, a Marine, who signed up to fight for our country.I fight for my family, because they are my world. I fight to prove to myself that I have what it takes to give everything I have to this journey.And I fight for all of those who are currently battling cancer, have battled, and for all of the family and friends who are impacted by their loved ones going through the fight. That's a fight I could never imagine going through. For anyone going through it or have gone through it, now that's true strength. No matter how tired, scared, or mentally exhausted I get through these next four months, remembering these reasons why I am fighting is what will keep me going. -Katie DonohueI’ve hated cancer for as long as I can remember. I only had 7 short years with my dad before cancer stole him from us. He was the toughest fighter I ever knew and I think of his battle every single time I step into the ring.I’m fighting for all of the people that have fought that battle and all of those who continue to fight. For everyone who has lost someone to the battle and knows they will never get another chance. I’m fighting because I’m so lucky to be in good health and have this opportunity and I don’t take that for granted one bit. -Katie CallanI've been training for nearly two months now, taking hit after hit to the skull. It's frustrating and it's terribly exhausting. One morning, feeling low and defeated I shouted, "I don't want to get hit anymore!", to which Jordan, of Haymakers for Hope, replied "people don't want to go through chemo." That statement hit harder than any fist. Nobody wants to be here. We're all fighting against something we'd rather not have to. Cancer. Cancer isn't selective. You're not given the choice not to fight. That's exactly why I chose to team up with my fellow Belles to battle alongside every other fighter that wasn't given the option. We're all in this together, because sadly, one day we may be the ones thrown into the fight without an alternative. -Cat FlahertyI am fighting for all those plagued with illnesses that robbed them of the chance to choose their fight. I’m fighting for all the survivors who put mind over matter, who pushed bravely through times of pain just for the chance to live another day, and see another face that counted on them. I’m fighting for all the victims who used every ounce of strength within, but were still taken in the end. -Erica LundgrenOver the last few years, Cancer had taken a more direct role in our family's life. My husband lost his mother to an inoperable lung tumor, complicated by her COPD. Then both his father and stepfather were diagnosed with different cancers shortly thereafter (Dec 2016). In July 2017, he lost his stepdad. Through a family friend and Haymaker Alumni, he found and applied to Haymakers For Hope. It made him feel a little less helpless in the battle against Cancer. He fought the Rock N Rumble Event in May 2018. During training, he lost his Grandfather to the same cancer that took his stepdad. -Debra WillardMy mom, Sharon, has been a patient of Dana Farber and the Mugar Center at Cape Cod Hospital since she was diagnosed with follicular lymphoma in 2012. It is located primarily in her abdomen and around her spine.The great thing about follicular lymphoma is that it is a slowly progressive disease with an average life span from time of diagnosis of 10 years.The shitty thing about follicular lymphoma is that it's a slowly progressive disease with an average life span from time of diagnosis of 10 years.It's like having a live hand grenade in your purse that can detonate at any time. Her affected lymph nodes are in places that surgical removal is not an option. It's a waiting game. Luckily, Dr. Fisher and his team at Dana Farber are experts in this particular subset of oncology. If you are unlucky enough to have lymphoma, being within driving distance to Dana Farber for diagnostics and treatment is the best thing you can hope for. Thanks to Dana Farber in conjunction with Dr. Wade at Cape Cod Hospital, my mom is doing awesome and living her best life. -Sarah GormanI fight for my mother-in-law, Josie, one of the strongest women I have ever had the honor to know and love. She was beautiful, sassy, and strong – a true force to be reckoned with. I looked up to her in so many ways. She could not wait to finally become a Nana. I was 7 months pregnant last March when she had her first seizure. What started out as a minor scare, quickly became our worst nightmare. We learned that she had a terminal brain tumor, completely unrelated to the two previous battles with cancer that she had fought and won years ago. The same week that I was in the hospital giving birth to her first grandchild, she was undergoing her first radiation treatment. My husband, Greg, was splitting his time between MGH with me, and Dana Farber with his mother. For months after our daughter was born, Greg spent sleepless nights with a crying newborn and weary mornings in a wheelchair van, taking his mother to 10 hour long appointment filled days for treatment. That is love. That is stress. That is happiness, and that is sadness. There were days that I would look at my husband unable to tell if his face was full of joy or horror. Emotions were no longer what we were used to. His mother was dying, and his daughter had just started living. We lost Josie to her valiantly fought battle with brain cancer this past October when our baby was just 5 months old. One year later, this coming October, I will step into the ring in celebration of all those who have won their fights against cancer, in honor of all those who we’ve lost, and in loving memory of our dear Josie. -Anna O’BrienWhy? I keep getting that question... I keep hearing “Why do you want to do this? After all you’ve been through already?” My answer is simple.... because I physically can. See... I’ve watched diseases take the lives of my father at age 57 and my brother at age 34..... I’ve watched the people I love most suffer and lose the choice to even walk a mile. On top of that I’ve been that person. At 30 years old when my daughter was just 4 months I was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer. Triple Negative is rare and extremely aggressive. So when I was diagnosed, I didn’t have a choice on treatment. It was chemotherapy... surgery.... It made me so weak that it took me two hours to walk one mile. But I had my daughter... I had my husband... I had my mom... So hell if I wasn’t going to fight with everything had. Cancer stole my hair... my body... the comfort of everyday life...but it never stole my hope. I held on to that with everything I had. Hope I’d get my strength back, hope I’d see all my daughters “firsts”....hope I’d have another baby someday. Hope for a future with the people I love. I was told cancer treatment had likely left me infertile. At 30 years old I was done having children... it was devastating blow... everyone wrote off my having kids but I never lost hope. I knew I wasn’t done yet. Sure enough 2 years post treatment I was pregnant with my miracle baby. I carried Noah to full term. He’s a big healthy crazy boy now. Our bodies are so resistant... if we take care of them, if we push them. If we give them hope... It’s taken me 4 years to recover from cancer treatments that left me a shadow of my former self. I’ll never be 100% but I’ve adjusted to my “new normal”. Cancer takes so much from you and the people who love you. You have to live for the day because tomorrow is not promised. Do I worry it will come back? Of course... But do I let it stop me from living? NEVER. So, yes I’m going to train. Yes, I’m going to push my body even more. Yes, I’m scared. Yes, this is probably a crazy thing to do.... but life is to short to say no. Life is to short to not hold on to hope. It’s to short to not make a difference if you can. To give hope to others out there fighting the same fight. If we don’t do what we can to stop cancer, then who will? So help me do this! Let’s make a difference today. Every dollar counts. You count. We can do this. I have a good feeling about it -Nikki Joyal
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Tuesday Sep 10, 2019
Why They Fight - The Beltway Brawl
With 32 different men and women stepping into the ring for the first time on September 19th, 2019 you can imagine there must be a lot of nerves and emotions swirling around. Excitement, fear, anticipation, hope, dread, the list goes on. They all have someone they are fighting for, they all have individual things driving them. Their lives have all been touched by cancer in some way. As fight night is approaching get an inside look as to what motivates these brave men and women who are stepping in the ring to literally knock out cancer.In June 2016, my dad was diagnosed with breast cancer and discovered he had the BRCA2 (breast cancer gene) mutation, which increases the risk for breast cancer and ovarian cancer. My sister and I both tested positive for the gene as well, and as part of the initial screening, I discovered I already had breast cancer. In September of 2017, I said "ta ta" to my ta-ta's and underwent a double mastectomy. As tough as it was, I consider myself one of the lucky ones. In 2017, over 40,000 women and men were estimated to lose their lives to breast cancer. For me, I only lost a couple months. So why do I fight? Because I can! – Annie DragolichFamily and friends who have fought and are still fighting for their lives. – Martin SanchezI recently learned that a guy in my circle of friends was diagnosed with testicular cancer and required surgery and nine weeks of chemotherapy. He has a young family like I do. And being a dad is tough job- I can't imagine what it must be like to fight cancer while also raising young children, but I know people have to do it everyday. So I decided to fight for all the parents out there that are literally fighting for their lives, so that they can have the opportunity to watch their children grow, just as I am so blessed to be doing. - Adam BaxterI’m a cancer survivor myself, as is my mother. I can also think of other extended family members and friends who are survivors. Needless to say, this is a very personal battle and journey that I’m on. - Pranav VoraI have a long list of friends and family members who have fought valiantly against cancer, some who were victorious, and others whose memories I will simply treasure for the rest of my life. One of the dearest memories I carry with me is my grandma, Thora, who lost her physical fight with leukemia. I have also had the privilege to work with and care for the patients at the Oncology ICU at Johns Hopkins Hospital. Listening to my patient's stories has emphasized that cancer doesn't care where you came from, who you are, or what you have/haven't done in your life. Cancer doesn't discriminate. So, if cancer doesn't rest, then neither should we in our fight for a cure. - Erika NelsonUnfortunately, a number of my immediate and extended family members have had to battle or currently are battling cancer. Not all of them have been successful. I also was involved in the Penn State Dance Marathon in college to raise money for the fight against childhood cancer. Nothing I will go through on this journey even remotely will approach the fight those battling cancer have to face. - Rachel FrankelMy Grandmom, Betty Mullins, lost her battle with Cancer when I was in elementary school. She was the kindest person I (or anyone else) ever met. If cancer can target her, it is truly indiscriminate. - Chris TiplerI've been fairly lucky as far as how much cancer has affected me. I've lost a few loved ones from it and some people I know or friends of friends have been diagnosed. My inspiration more so comes from the stories I've heard of others who it has affected on a deeper level and who it is affecting currently. I'm also inspired to help fight cancer in the future, because as far as I know, it doesn't seem to be going away anytime soon. If my fortunate run of having my life unaffected by cancer profoundly were to end, I would want to know that there are others fighting for a cure, too. - Harrison SlaterAfter being bombarded over the past year with e-mails, links, and pictures from my friend Erik regarding Haymakers, I reluctantly looked into the organization. What I saw was both inspiring, and to be honest, slightly terrifying. But the fundraising potential for this amazing organization was just to good to pass up. And after a little more thought, (and a good shadow boxing session in my living room), I signed up! - Sean McCumiskeyMy Dad - and the thousands of other people who die from this disease each year - are my inspiration. If they could fight as hard as they did and endure the immense physical and emotional pain of cancer, then surely I can get in a ring and take a few hits. If we're going to find a cure, we need more research, we need more clinical trials, and we need more hope. I am so grateful to have an opportunity to make a small contribution to that. I would like to think my Dad would be proud. Either that, or he's up there fretting about me getting hurt! - Katie JenningsCancer can eat a plate of shit. - Adrian HoweMy wife’s aunt was battling cancer for a few years, and passed away in the time since I signed up for haymakers. She has two wonderful kids who are about the same age my brother and I were when our mom passed. The pain of watching family suffer is all too familiar. I remember feeling so helpless when she was sick, like there was nothing I could do about it. It reminds me of all those feelings. Being an observer in their fight made me want to “do something” about it, so I signed up for Haymakers for Hope. Like I said above, it's something I've always wanted to do anyway. If the research funded by my fight improves someone's quality of life enough for one more moment with their family then it's more than worth it. - Jesse StephensMy inspiration comes from the people out there who are fighting cancer. - Adam AljoburiGrowing up, I had a cousin who was diagnosed with a very rare and aggressive form of cancer. Obviously, it had a dramatic effect on my family but my cousin and family were fortunate to find comfort in a place called the Children's INN. When I moved to DC, I became involved with the INN and have been ever since. It is a fantastic place and I would hope people would somehow become involved, as well. - Michael Dendas
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Tuesday Sep 10, 2019
Fighting for Family
Jesse Stephens likes to try things. Even a short conversation with the real estate investor will get him ticking off hobbies and activities. He lists wrestling, football and lacrosse among sports that have held his interest, and while he’s always casually followed boxing, the sweet science is a new addition to his lineup. He’s quick to point out his latest activity can be lonely, but when Jese gets into the ring for his first fight in the inaugural Haymakers for Hope event in Washington DC, he’ll have his whole family behind him; he’s fighting against the disease that took one of his own.Jesse remembers hearing about Haymakers for Hope’s mission to KO cancer when he lived in New York City, and when signups for the first DC event were announced, he saw his opportunity to make a difference. “My wife’s Aunt Connie passed recently after a long battle. She has two kids who are the same age that my brother and I were when we lost our parents. Thinking about my wife’s cousins and seeing them go through something familiar for me made me get up and think ‘This is bullshit. This is too hard for someone to go through at any age.’ I remember thinking I wished there was something I could do, even if it meant buying someone else’s family just one more day with their parents.”Jesse says his family is nervous to see him fight, but excited to rally around his cause. They’ve been supportive since he first signed up and were responsible for most of his early donations. He’s clearly part of a family of fighters, first among them Aunt Connie.“She came to terms with her own mortality and started reaching out being more outspoken about screening and prevention. She felt very strongly that had the HPV vaccine been available, she wouldn’t have had to deal with this,” Jesse says. “I know she would have been supportive. She had her own cancer research fundraiser about a year ago, so if feels nice to be continuing that.”The familial connection has helped Jesse in the gym, too. “The mission of Haymakers for Hope, fighting against this disease comes into my mind before and after every training session. I try to approach a bad day or rough sparring session by telling myself to try harder, and remember why I’m training. This is something bigger than me, more important than me.”WRITTEN BY STEPHANIE KENT
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Thursday Aug 29, 2019
Caddy Yates: Laywer by Day, Boxer by Night
Charlotte Yates stands tall at five feet three inches on a good day. Although small in stature, she has a larger than life personality. Charlotte, who prefers to be called by her nickname Caddy, is an outgoing girl from the suburbs of Boston. She is constantly trying new things; whether it’s brewing her own hard cider, paddleboarding, or new vegetarian recipes, she doesn’t often hesitate from trying something new. And when Caddy turns thirty in September, she’ll be able to add another new hobby to her list: boxing. Caddy explains Haymakers wasn’t something on her radar or something she ever could’ve foreseen herself doing. Primarily a Polo player, Caddy had never boxed before starting her Belles journey. But she was willing to take that leap into the ring when she found out her Aunt Gail, who had already been battling breast cancer for decades, had been diagnosed with a second form of breast cancer. And just like with some things in life where the timing is inexplicable yet kismet, the news came a few weeks before sign-ups and Caddy thought, “What more perfect way to show her how much I care and how much she means to me other than fighting and getting punched in the face!” Although Caddy has never physically fought someone, she has never shied away from getting into a fight verbally. The youngest of three with two older brothers, she’s always been able to stand up for herself. And she’s the first to admit it. “I can get real sassy and real pissy really quickly,” she said confidently. And to boot, she’s quite good at the verbal spar--which is most likely why she turned into a career. When Caddy isn’t training to defend herself in the ring, she’s defending her clients in the courtroom. And that is unbelievably corny, yes, but it’s true. As a newly minted litigation lawyer who specializes in immigration law, Caddy fights daily. She fights for those who are deserving but unable to fight things on their own. It’s a trait Caddy has had her whole life, which is evident her being such a big animal lover. She rescued her beloved horse Tink from the slaughterhouse. In other words, there was an innocent animal who couldn’t speak for herself and Caddy stepped in to fight for her. So although Caddy says she is fighting for her Aunt Gail, it’s really because she’s always had a fighting spirit. Caddy has always known the value of hard work—whether it’s in the barn or studying for the LSAT. And training for Belles is hard work. She confessed that she still gets physically exhausted. But most of the hard work she’s done is mental. She explained, “This is a very weird mental place to be in. Like I am so keen to do this. But here are days when I’m like, “‘I don’t want to go. I really don’t.’” She jokingly continued, “There aren’t just some days—there are a lot of days where I’m just like I feel like it. But I still frickin’ go.” She attributed a lot of her success to her coaches, the Nolan Brothers. The gym, Caddy has found, is an incredibly positive space where what she thought was an individual sport is really a group sport where everyone supports one another. And when facetiously asked if she would ever ask the opposing counsel to “take it outside the courtroom” with her newfound boxing skills, she decisively said, “No!” But then teasingly added, “Although it would make things much easier.” In reflecting on the helplessness a cancer diagnosis can have on family and friends, she reasoned that’s why Haymakers came into her life when it did. She’s not just donating money to a charity—she’s able to put herself in the literal ring to show her Aunt Gail she’s in the metaphorical ring with her. Just as she does with her clients in the courtroom. And just as she does when there’s an animal in need. So when connecting the dots, Haymakers was a natural fit. Because when Caddy gets “sassy” and “pissy,” as she said, it’s really when she thinks something is unfair. And what could be more unfair than cancer?An animal lover to the n-th degree, a lawyer with a feisty attitude, and a life-long empathetic relative but who never took crap from her brothers: it’s almost as if Caddy has been preparing for this fight her whole life without knowing it. The only difference is now is when she fights, she takes Epsom salt baths after.
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Monday Aug 12, 2019
Boxer in Training: Erika Nelson
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on September 19th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Erika Nelson has been putting in work at Baltimore Boxing Club and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? It has definitely been challenging with my ever-changing schedule, but I actually enjoy going to training and I make it work! What is your weekly routine? 2-3 times I am in a boxing class/training/sparring, and the other days I do my roadwork (running, lifting, shadowboxing).How has your diet changed since training began? I have A WHOLE MOUTH FULL OF SWEET TEETH. So I have really tried to cut back on my intake of sugar with a side of sugar.Tell us about your first-time sparring, different than expected? Holy crap. I sparred a collegiate boxer and I got whooped. Haha I learned so much though!What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? Shadowboxing on my own! Perfect practice makes perfect, but I don't always take the time to shadowbox in the mirror to improve on the things I learned in training that week.What does your family think of your participation? My mom is terrified...but she's coming to the fight so hopefully she doesn't close her eyes the whole time!It’s amazing how many people’s lives have been touched by cancer in some way - has there been anyone that has surprised you by their story? Just through my promotion of this event, people have come to me about their experience with cancer in their own lives. People that I would have never guessed had gone through such challenges in their own lives. One donator in specific had his best friend pass away due to brain cancer.Has your initial inspiration changed since the start of your training? Heck to the yes! Initially I was fighting for the people that I personally know/knew, but this fight is so much bigger than my inner circle. I am now fighting for friends of friends of friends as well.Donate to Erika or purchase a ticket to The Beltway Brawl on September 19th here!
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Monday Aug 12, 2019
Boxer in Training: Connor McCarthy
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on September 19th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Connor McCarthy has been putting in work at Urban Boxing DC and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? Well...I've had three injuries in the first two months so I've had to work around those. Pinched nerve in the neck, strained calf and almost through recovering from a pulled groin. So pretty good!What is your weekly routine? My injuries have made my time at Urban Boxing very limited BUT I manage to get something every day. Lots of body weight stuff, jumping rope, core work and rehabbing my injuries. I spend a lot of time with my foam roller. I may give it a name soon.How has your diet changed since training began? I'm very good about eating good/clean food and trying to avoid drinking which sucks. I'm going to kick up the healthy life even more the next couple months -I'm playing major catch up on training!Tell us about your first-time sparring, different than expected? I hear its life changing...trying to get my first one in next week.What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? Maintaining a positive mindset through injuries. Deep down I'm super competitive and its really hard to pump the breaks for rehab. 3 TIMES!What does your family think of your participation? My Mom will not be attending. My Dad is 50/50. They like what I'm doing it for but don't want to see me get hurt. My wife will be there for sure and loves the cause but will be very happy when its over.It’s amazing how many people’s lives have been touched by cancer in some way - has there been anyone that has surprised you by their story? I just lost my cousin who I hadn't seen in many many years. She was the epitome of health and positive living - way before it was cool! We just celebrated her life with our family which was such a nice experience (in the shadow of sadness) but it reminded me in a very real way that cancer has no bounds. We also need to appreciate our family members who are lucky enough to be healthy and smother those who are sick with as much love as possible.Has your initial inspiration changed since the start of your training? Yes - I look at my H4H wristband every single day. It is a reminder of why I'm doing this and inspiration to never give up.Donate to Connor or purchase a ticket to The Beltway Brawl on September 19th here!
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Monday Aug 5, 2019
Boxer in Training: Harrison Slater
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on September 19th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Harrison Slater has been putting in work at Urban Boxing DC and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? Great! I've had some good sparring sessions and some that are more challenging. My conditioning has improved, but unfortunately I'm dealing with a stubborn IT Band Syndrome, which has held me back from running, biking, and jumping rope. Hopefully that heals soon so I can really turn things up a few notches.What is your weekly routine? I try to get to the gym 5 times per week, and one or two of those days take 2 classes or stay longer on my own. Once my knee heals, I will incorporate morning runs to complement the training at the gym. I typically take Saturday off, and have a lighter day on Sunday.How has your diet changed since training began? Much fewer carbs, fat, salt, and sugar. It's been hard to stay away from pasta, french fries, pizza, bagels, and sandwiches, but I've been doing a fairly good job at being disciplined with it. I've also replaced beer with spiked seltzers and vodka sodas. Lastly, I've been drinking a LOT of water, and taken some supplements to promote strong joints, muscles, and bones (Omega 3s, Turmeric, and Magnesium). I will say, I feel great, but that doesn't change the fact that I miss all my favorite foods. What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? For me it's the time management. If it was up to me, I would spend 4-6 hours per day training. But with work, friends, family, and other commitments, it's typically more like 1.5-2 hours per day. Aside from working to find time to train and prepare myself, it's definitely the diet.What does your family think of your participation? They fully support me, but my mom (and both grandmas) are unbelievably nervous. They love what I'm doing and the causes I'm raising money for, but they would much prefer if it was a chess match instead of boxing. That said, after I showed them the teaser video that Gauntlet Films put together for me, they were all in. It's hard to watch that and not get fired up.Donate to Harrison or purchase a ticket to The Beltway Brawl on September 19th here!
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Monday Aug 5, 2019
Boxer in Training: Annie Dragolich
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on September 19th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Annie Dragolich has been putting in work at Downtown Boxing Club and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? It’s great! Having never boxed before, the last 2 months have been a whirlwind trying to learn everything I can about the sport, but it’s been cool to see the progress I’ve made in a short time.What is your weekly routine? 5-6 days a week I do training sessions which consist of a mix bag work, mitt work and lots of jumping rope, core work and pushups. In addition, I try to spar at least one day a week.How has your diet changed since training began? I’ve maintained a pretty healthy diet since getting cancer, but have definitely become more disciplined since training. No sugar, little to no alcohol and a lot of protein!Tell us about your first-time sparring, different than expected? I took a couple strong right hooks to the head that I wasn’t expecting!What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? I love the training but it requires a lot of discipline and often means having to miss out on other things. I usually travel a lot more, especially in the summer but have cut back almost entirely to ensure I can stick to my training regimen.What does your family think of your participation? They have been really supportive and are excited about fight night!It’s amazing how many people’s lives have been touched by cancer in some way - has there been anyone that has surprised you by their story? Since starting this journey, I’ve had a lot of people reach out to me to share their own stories. I’m continuously surprised by the number of people that are affected by cancer each & every day. Also — very surprised to hear that Chris Tipler has a baby due one week before fight night!Has your initial inspiration changed since the start of your training? Not at all, if anything it’s only further reinforced my “why.” I started this journey because I survived cancer and am lucky enough to be able to get in the ring. There are so many others who won’t ever get that opportunity and I feel motivated to fight for them.Donate to Annie or purchase a ticket to The Beltway Brawl on September 19th here!
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Monday Aug 5, 2019
Boxer in Training: Allison Picott
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on October 9th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Allison Picott has been putting in work at Back Bay Boxing and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? It's all coming together - learning how to box, the fitness training, and the weight loss. I'm feeling good and am pleased with my progress!What is your weekly routine? Three times a week, I take a Boxing Technique class at Back Back Boxing (high intensity interval training followed by mitt/glove work) and once a week I stay for sparring. And when I am not boxing, I’m working out with a personal trainer twice a week. Every weekend, I go (at least once, sometimes twice) to BDY SQD for an assisted stretch and every other week I see my acupuncturist.How has your diet changed since training began? I've been working with Brittani, a Stronger U nutritionist since mid-April and since I began my training, I've worked very closely with her on helping me to maintain good nutritional habits while working towards my weight loss goal. Brittani has been great helping me to adjust my macros so I have good energy when working out and am not starving throughout the day or when I go to bed.Tell us about your first-time sparring, different than expected? I'd taken like 2 Boxing Technique classes before stepping into the ring to spar. I didn't know what to expect or even really how to box, but I wasn't scared. I got hit and got in some good hits, too. I guess I was surprised by how much I liked it!What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? I haven't found it a challenge sticking to a routine or training. I make it a priority and fortunately I have a very supportive and understanding husband and friends.What does your family think of your participation? They are 100% on board! They are so excited for me and have been really impressed to see how dedicated I've been and by my improvement in such a short period of time.It’s amazing how many people’s lives have been touched by cancer in some way - has there been anyone that has surprised you by their story? My friend, Katharine, was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer back in January. She was so sick and her medical problems were so complicated, we didn't know if she would make it. She's now back home and getting ready to return back to work on a part-time basis. Her cancer is thankfully being managed. Katharine has had an incredible attitude and sense of humor about the whole situation - even when she was just out of the ICU and barely able to communicate. She is SO excited that I am participating in Belles of the Brawl VII and it means so much to me that she will be in the audience on October 9th cheering me on!Has your initial inspiration changed since the start of your training? When I started training, I was drawing inspiration from my own breast cancer battle and that of my friend Katharine's. Sadly, in early July, I went to the funeral of a childhood friend who died of a rare cancer just 9 months after being diagnosed. Mike was 47, married with two teenaged daughters; he was an awesome person, full of life, and was someone who was loved by so many. And so I think of Mike often - either on my way to Back Bay Boxing or while I am training.Donate to Allison or purchase a ticket to Belles of the Brawl on October 9th here!
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Monday Aug 5, 2019
Boxer in Training: Megan Walsh
You’ve heard who they are and why they’re fighting. But now that we’re over the halfway mark until the big night on October 9th, things have started to pick up a bit. Training is getting more intense. They’ve been punched in the face. Most have had a bloody nose here or there, their diets have changed, and boxing is becoming an everyday part of their lives. So we figured it was about time to check back in and see how things have been going. Megan Walsh has been putting in work at Back Bay Boxing and below you’ll hear about her first time sparring and more about his experience with Haymakers thus far.We’re halfway to fight night, how is your training coming along? Great! It has been amazing to see how much I have improved over the past two months. It has not been easy and there have been a lot of literal blood, sweat, and tears throughout training and being able to see the improvement makes it all worth it.What is your weekly routine? I currently train 5 days a week.How has your diet changed since training began? I surprisingly eat more than before. With all of the training I have been doing I come home ravenous. In the beginning it was hard to say no to the foods that I love, but now I crave the foods my body needs to fuel.Tell us about your first-time sparring, different than expected? It was the moment I said to myself, 'What have I gotten myself into?'. I went into the ring and gave it everything I had with the mind set, if you don't want to get punched in the face, you have to swing. When I came out of the ring, everybody was very surprised I gave it all I had and didn't mostly back away from my opponent. That gave me the confidence I was doing something right and take that attitude into the ring every time.What has been the most challenging part of sticking to the routine and training so far? Showing up on days I really don't want to. I have gone through two personally hard issues in the time I have been training, and there were days that it was really hard to get into the gym. I still got up and went everyday I needed to and found that the gym has been my salvation. Going to the gym and punching things takes out all my frustrations about 'Why is this happening to me?' 'Life isn't fair'. By the end of class I am exhausted and have left everything I have in the gym. I also have an amazing family at the gym who always greet me with huge smiles and encouraging words. I truly don't think I could have gotten through these situations the way I have without boxing.What does your family think of your participation? My mom was not happy at first, but now all of my family members are on board and can't wait for fight night. After being matched at my gym, I found out that my cousin had a membership at the same gym. It has been awesome to have her there with me and even more family close by to support me.It’s amazing how many people’s lives have been touched by cancer in some way - has there been anyone that has surprised you by their story? One of my fellow Belles Allison Picott. It wasn't until I read her bio did I realize she was a survivor. It was inspiring to see that at her young age of 49, she has kicked cancer's ass and now wants to fight again on her own terms. She has taken her life into her own hands and now is going to kick cancer's ass for good!Has your initial inspiration changed since the start of your training? Partially. I still fight for my grandparents I lost from cancer, but now I fight for me. Personally, over the last two months, have not been easy for me. Through training, I have shown myself that I am strong and can do whatever I put my mind to. Life my knock you down over and over but you get up get back in the ring and keep showing life who is boss.Donate to Megan or purchase a ticket to Belles of the Brawl on October 9th here!
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